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In Gunn graduation speeches, students drop their 'excellent facades,' urge vulnerability
Original post made on May 31, 2019
Read the full story here Web Link posted Thursday, May 30, 2019, 11:30 PM
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a resident of Barron Park
on May 31, 2019 at 11:56 am
I loved Jimmy's speech and so happy that Jennifer Arevalo received an award. She is a special and sweet girl and I wish her and all the 2019 grads the best.
a resident of Barron Park
on May 31, 2019 at 12:39 pm
> students drop their 'excellent facades,' urge vulnerability
This is OK in certain circles (i.e. among friends, family, significant others etc.) but not OK as a whole.
To broadcast one's vulnerability is a sign of weakness & will ensure that other less kind-hearted people will take advantage of & use those individuals who are professing their inherent weaknesses and/or ailments to others.
Leaders and aspiring leaders should never divulge their vulnerabilities to potential enemies.
a resident of Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on May 31, 2019 at 12:48 pm
Posted by Victims Of Circumstance, a resident of Barron Park
>> This is OK in certain circles (i.e. among friends, family, significant others etc.) but not OK as a whole.
That is your opinion, but, the student speakers disagree with you.
>> To broadcast one's vulnerability is a sign of weakness & will ensure that other less kind-hearted people will take advantage of & use those individuals who are professing their inherent weaknesses and/or ailments to others.
>> Leaders and aspiring leaders should never divulge their vulnerabilities to potential enemies.
Being willing to admit your vulnerabilities and weaknesses in public could also be a sign of growing inner strength. Please be willing to consider the point of view expressed by the speakers.
a resident of Barron Park
on May 31, 2019 at 1:09 pm
> Being willing to admit your vulnerabilities and weaknesses in public could also be a sign of growing inner strength.
^^^ Depends on the 'public' setting. All things considered, women as a rule do not respect a man who cries in public, perpetually whines or openly expresses his 'vulnerabilities'. And neither do most men.
Try blubbering in the military, at work or while leading the country & just see how far you get. A good way to empower your enemies.
a resident of Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on May 31, 2019 at 1:33 pm
Posted by Victims Of Circumstance, a resident of Barron Park
>> Try blubbering in the military, at work or while leading the country & just see how far you get. A good way to empower your enemies.
I understand the "suffer in silence" view, but, I also understand the contrary view. Note this, from an older scientific study:
"Psychiatric disorders were found to be quite common. Some 41.2% of the adult population under 65 had experienced at least one DSM-III-R disorder in their lifetime, among them 23.3% within the preceding year."
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Anxiety disorders of various types are the most common. A recent study gave the statistic at 33.7% of people will experience an anxiety disorder in their lifetime.
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If 2 out of 5 of all people will suffer a serious disorder in their lifetime, and specifically, 1 out of 3 an anxiety disorder, I think serious consideration should be given to the notion that it is better to acknowledge these conditions rather than suppress discussion.
a resident of Barron Park
on May 31, 2019 at 1:47 pm
> If 2 out of 5 of all people will suffer a serious disorder in their lifetime, and specifically, 1 out of 3 an anxiety disorder, I think serious consideration should be given to the notion that it is better to acknowledge these conditions rather than suppress discussion.
^^^I agree with you 100% BUT there is a time & a place for the appropriate expression of this anxiety.
Besides, MOST people don't want to constantly hear about other people's personal problems & issues as they've got enough of their own. It can get old after awhile.
This is why one must have an appropriate audience & setting...not anywhere or anyone will suffice.
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