Tim sullivan RIP.My prayers are with you and your family.

So tragic. What a bright young man.

Heartbreaking news, and heartfelt sympathies go to family and friends.

As an organ recipient I wanted to say that I was touched by the mention of organs being donated, and say to the Sullivan family that their son will continue to bring life and hope to (many) others.

Rest in peace. Condolences to the family, as well.

Tim was a delightful young man. We are sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Friday at 7:00 PM, Our Lady of the Rosary Church, 3233 Cowper Street, Palo Alto.
A Celebration of Tim's Life will be held from 9:00 AM to Noon on Saturday at the Lucy Stern Community Center outdoor garden, 1305 Middlefield Road, Palo Alto.

I am so moved by the mother's words.... She is how I would like to be if I should ever experience such an unimaginable event. May peace and blessings find all the friends and family of this precious soul who has been called home.

So, sooo sorry for Tim, and his family's loss.

this is a heart wrenching tragedy, I'm so sorry. it's one of our kids, every mother's heart is with you at this time Mrs. Cassidy.

Timmy, you were a great teammate and an even better friend. You were such a unique individual who I felt had so much to offer everyone. I'm so glad I got to play soccer with ya for the 3 or 4 years at Gunn, because you always brightened everyones day and saw the better side of things. You were open to everyone you came across and I can't believe you are gone. We will remember you always. Love ya man.

To Tim's family...My heart goes out to you.

To community children. Note that Tim was NOT wearing a helmet. Incidence of fatality in crashes like this can be reduced more than 85% if you wear a helmet. Put on your helmet and buckle it every time you get on wheels. Don't put yourself at risk of brain injury or death. Don't put your family and friends at risk of losing you.

I am so very sorry to hear of this heart breaking loss. May his memory be a blessing.

He was a delightful young man, full of life. He was on the soccer team at Gunn with our son. He always gave his best effort.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

My sincere condolences to the family of this precious young man. What a tragic loss of talent and promise. Choosing organ donation is also very commendable. I am sure that Tim''s organs will give new life to many.

I appreciate the fact that "don't drink and drive" was instilled in Tim and that he and his friend made the right decision by not driving. I think it important to realize, however, that skateboards and bicycles can be dangerous vehicles to operate as well especially without a helmet on. Even more dangerous is doing either of these activities under the influence of alcohol or any other drug. I am not assuming that alcohol or other drugs were involved but young people often use fun-enhancing substances at parties and could have their lives spared by taking a cab or having a designated driver.

I am in tears reading this. The mom is so brave and her thoughts so beautiful. We must all hug our children today.

I am so proud of their family. Their son was a terrific human being and I can see where he gets it now. How brave of them to be able to talk about organ donation and just trying to be thankful for the time they had. How brave.

All our community sends it's prayers to this family.

Sherry & Matt, I am saddened,my heart goes out to you two and to the rest of your family...How can you handle this? Yet I know how you will handle it...with the grace and faith you have always shown, and the love of the community you have built. Terry

What a sad thing to go through. God bless his family and make their lives less painful during these difficult times. My prayers are with you and all the students who knew him.

My heart goes out to this family; I am so sorry for your loss.

To other posters: please, although well-intentioned, it may be most sensitive to use this board to express support for the family and avoid addressing issues. It's important, but perhaps not the best time or place to do so. Just a thought.

Timmy was a responsible, caring, respectful, and happy kid from a wonderful family with a bright future. He will be missed by many.

love you and miss you timmy :(

To community parents... Note that Tim was NOT wearing a helmet. Incidence of serious brain injury or fatality in crashes like this can be reduced more than 85% if you wear a helmet. Tell your children this story. Talk with them about wearing a helmet and buckling it EVERY time they get on wheels. MODEL good behavior. Wear a helmet every time you ride.

Let's all learn from this terrible loss.

My family's thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss. Our son was a classmate of Tim's.

My thoughts are with you guys.
:(

Seanna

This is very sad. With work and school it's easy to forget what being alive means. Timmy you are a ray of life. That's what you will remain in my mind.

I lost my son five years ago at the age of 21. He was part of the Monterey Bay area skating community. This tragedy rekindles the grief, but also inspires me to try to help. I hope the family takes advantage of such services as Hospice, Compassionate Friends, and Palo Alto's own Kara Grief Support, 457 Kingsley Avenue, Palo Alto - (650) 321-5272. See http://www.kara-grief.org . God bless.

My prayers are with the Sullivan Family. You were a great and fun person.

Aloha to Tim's family from their friends on Kauai. This news is heartbreaking and such a loss of a beautiful young man. Our prayers and Aloha are with you all.

I was Timmy's Kindergarten teacher at Fairmeadow and was so shocked and saddened to hear about Timmy. It seemed improbable. A lot of kids come and go through our school and it is hard to remember each name or face over the years. But Timmy was one of the kids who I do remember immediately. He was always happy and giving. He was curious and engaged. His spirit made you smile. Finding the right words to say at this time is difficult because everything seems so inadequate for this loss.
I am so sorry.
Heidi Maier Deveau

RIP Tim.

Am amazed by the even-handed and compassionate words from his mother, inspirational.

Because of your genuine kindness, zest for adventure, and willingness to help your cousin Logan whenever asked, you will continue to be an inspiration to him for the rest of his life. For that, we are eternally grateful. Your family and friends have such deep admiration for you. You've truly shown others how to live a full life. Your time with us was far too short, but the things you did when you were here will have an long-lasting, significant effect on all of us who were fortunate enough to know and love you. Timmy, you will always be with us in spirit.

As the mother of two wonderful sons who are also skate-boarders, this made me cry. My heart goes out to this family for their loss and also their willingness to let us know how this happened (in hopes, no doubt, that other parents could be spared this grief) and for considering organ donation. My thoughts are with you.

To the family who lost their son (I do not know you), but I have nothing else by prayers and God gives you strength and lightens your pain. It sounds like you were great parents because people talks so great about your son. Being a parent in this days is hard, but you did it. I am glad you saw your son before he depart from you. Blessings.

Wear a helmet. They save lives and prevent parents and loved ones from having to go through such pain.

Timmy -- I grew up with you. We went to Elementary, Middle, and High school together. I remember how we were a few of the kids who did all the noon-leagues at Fairmeadow and how you loved to drop kick the soccer ball when you saved a goal. I remember hanging out with you on field trips (like the whale trip in 2nd grade). Even though I hadn't seen you since graduating from Gunn, and even then at Gunn we never really hung-out, I'm going to miss you buddy.

Inspiring presence of mind to speak of organ donation at such a difficult time. Matt and Sherry, you have a beautiful family and are not alone in your loss.

I believe that Tim's spirit lives on in all these community members, friends, and family who were touched by Tim's vibrant life! My thoughts and prayers turn to his family members with hope that they feel the love surrounding them and that the pain lessens a little each day.

My daughter was a Paly friend of Tim's; he found her lost wallet at Christmas time and took the time to mail it to her at college in January. She's heartbroken for the loss and that she won't be home for the celebration of his life...but sending her love, as are all the families Palo Alto.

They are all our children.

Just got the news. I am so sorry to hear this. You sound so brave in this interview Sherry. The ITP community supports you in both your losses. Hope to see you on campus soon.

May God's comfort be with each of you during this upside down time. I lost my brother in a diving accident when he was 26 and about to start a new phase in his life after almost completing a graduate program. My heart goes to each of you, but especially his brother and sister. Know you are being thought of. It's hard when most of the attention is on "How are your parents doing?" Please be there for each other and understand that you both will have different times of highs and lows and anger. Be patient and listen when you're up, and talk rather than holding it in when you are down. Your brother sounds like a good guy (he had to be if he was a UCSC banana slug!); I'm sure who he was was also thanks to who both of you are.
Peace and prayers. You will make it through.

Tim spent a week hiking in the Sierras with my daughter, Claire, and other students as part of UCSC's wilderness orientation. I remember her commenting on how bright Tim was, that he was well liked by everyone on the trip, and that he wanted to be a doctor. This is such a tragic loss for his family and all who knew him. I never knew Tim, but I honor his family's decision to allow his body to save the lives of others.

May god grant his family strength and peace.

Excerpt from Choose Them Wisely:
The meaning of Eternity -
Each blossom forever blooms in its field.
Each child forever clutches your hand,
Each friend forever lingers in your heart.
This is what eternal means.

RIP Dear Timmy - You will never be forgotten. You will live on in all of our hearts for the rest of our living days.
With love -
Kimberly Perlmutter

The waves of tears and sorrow will follow with the many wonderful memories. Our thoughts, appreciation and condolances to all of your family.

Dear Sherry and Matt and Tyler and Cassedy,

We are so sad to hear about Timmy. There seems to be no rhyme or reason sometimes to our lives. He was such a beautiful young man with an exciting life before him. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers, and we are hopeful that your strong sense of love, inspiration and community will help you through this sad time.

All our love and prayers are with you,
Lani and Jay Deimling and family
(Sherry's High School Friends)

cannot believe that you are gone. you had so much to offer this world timmy, i dont understand. may you rest in peace and may your soul be in a better place. this world lost a lot when it lost you.

Please add one more family to the many who are sending you condolences and prayers for this heartbreaking loss. We support, honor, and thank you for the generous gift you are making to organ recipients. What a compassionate way to ensure that Tim will continue to make the world a better place. Sending your family love. and a community with you in spirit.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. It's impossible to read and believe. I share your sadness.

RIP Tim.

Our family sends Aloha to your family and friends. We remember Timmy smiling, here on Kauai at the beach and warm in the sun. He was fortunate. Every day in his life was important. We remember Timmy as passionate, living life with no boundries. He was afforded the opportunity to live in the most beautiful place in the world. Never forget that. We will be thinking of you on Saturday. Know that the rain that falls tomorrow here on Kauai will be honoring his memory.
He will always be close. Me Ke Aloha Pumehana..Aloha Timmy

So sorry to hear about Timmy. Thank you for choosing Timmy to be an organ donor. Several lives will be lengthened and touched by this selfless act.

So sorry to hear about this tragedy, our thoughts and prayers are with you .

Adrian and Karen Rodriguez

a great 20 years, with no suffering, at the least we can focus on that. we should all live our lives like they will end tomorrow, within reason. i know way to many people who would just drive home, he should be rewarded for his decision.

I just learned of Timmy's passing late last night. Timmy was in my 4th grade class at Fairmeadow, my last year there. He was a creative, kind, charming, hardworking young man. I am so sorry for his family, and for our collective loss.

I am from the Seattle community.. Just looking up old friends and found this heart breaking story. I am so sorry for your loss. I am a PE teacher and always telling kids to be sure to wear helmets, but when they get a certain age they just laugh at you... I can understand it however, when I was that age I never wore a helmet. Never, we never did. I a hopeful that all things happen for a reason. So if you don't mind I will share this story with my skate board kid students, at my school. Maybe I will start a skate board club in his honor. Heidi Jacobson,from Seattle, and Los Altos California.