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Brock Turner survivor withdraws from plaque proposal

Student advocacy group circulating petition seeking the university to issue public apology to victim

The words of the young woman who was sexually assaulted by former Stanford University student Brock Turner made waves around the world, inspiring legislation and activism, but will not be featured on a plaque on campus.

The anonymous woman, referred to by the pseudonym Emily Doe, has pulled out of conversations with the university to place a plaque on campus featuring words from her now-famous victim impact statement. The plaque was to be installed at the site where Turner sexually assaulted her — behind a dumpster, outside the Kappa Alpha fraternity house — an area Stanford transformed last fall by installing benches, landscaping and a fountain.

Stanford law professor Michele Dauber, a family friend of Doe's, said Wednesday that Stanford rejected two separate quotes Doe proposed for the plaque, both from her victim impact statement, which she read in court during Turner's sentencing in 2016. Dauber said the decision to reject the quotes was approved by Provost Persis Drell.

Dauber said that Stanford offered alternative quotes, including "I'm okay, everything's okay," which is what Doe recounted telling her sister when she picked Doe up from the hospital after the assault.

"Given this situation, Emily felt the best course was to decline to participate in the memorial plaque," Dauber said.

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Stanford spokesman Ernest Miranda said that that the university "could not accept" the quotes she proposed "as they were not consistent with a contemplative space and the intention of a place where members of our community could seek solace."

Sexual assault counselors advised the university that one of the quotes could be "triggering" for victims of sexual violence, Miranda said.

Dauber declined to provide this quote, but said that it was "purposefully selected" because it was the most frequently quoted selection in media coverage.

Miranda said Stanford proposed three alternative quotes, including "I'm right here, I’m okay, everything's okay, I'm right here."

The university also proposed using: "You are beautiful, you are to be valued, respected, undeniably, every minute of every day, you are powerful and nobody can take that away from you." and "On nights when you feel alone, I am with you. When people doubt you or dismiss you, I am with you. I fought every day for you. So never stop fighting, I believe you."

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Dauber described the university's response as "insensitive" and said that "a great university does not fear its students engaging with challenging texts -- it embraces that opportunity."

The Stanford Association of Students for Sexual Assault Prevention, a student advocacy group, has circulated a petition calling on the university to publicly apologize to Doe and immediately install the plaque with the quote she originally chose.

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Brock Turner survivor withdraws from plaque proposal

Student advocacy group circulating petition seeking the university to issue public apology to victim

by / Palo Alto Weekly

Uploaded: Wed, Jan 31, 2018, 9:49 am

The words of the young woman who was sexually assaulted by former Stanford University student Brock Turner made waves around the world, inspiring legislation and activism, but will not be featured on a plaque on campus.

The anonymous woman, referred to by the pseudonym Emily Doe, has pulled out of conversations with the university to place a plaque on campus featuring words from her now-famous victim impact statement. The plaque was to be installed at the site where Turner sexually assaulted her — behind a dumpster, outside the Kappa Alpha fraternity house — an area Stanford transformed last fall by installing benches, landscaping and a fountain.

Stanford law professor Michele Dauber, a family friend of Doe's, said Wednesday that Stanford rejected two separate quotes Doe proposed for the plaque, both from her victim impact statement, which she read in court during Turner's sentencing in 2016. Dauber said the decision to reject the quotes was approved by Provost Persis Drell.

Dauber said that Stanford offered alternative quotes, including "I'm okay, everything's okay," which is what Doe recounted telling her sister when she picked Doe up from the hospital after the assault.

"Given this situation, Emily felt the best course was to decline to participate in the memorial plaque," Dauber said.

Stanford spokesman Ernest Miranda said that that the university "could not accept" the quotes she proposed "as they were not consistent with a contemplative space and the intention of a place where members of our community could seek solace."

Sexual assault counselors advised the university that one of the quotes could be "triggering" for victims of sexual violence, Miranda said.

Dauber declined to provide this quote, but said that it was "purposefully selected" because it was the most frequently quoted selection in media coverage.

Miranda said Stanford proposed three alternative quotes, including "I'm right here, I’m okay, everything's okay, I'm right here."

The university also proposed using: "You are beautiful, you are to be valued, respected, undeniably, every minute of every day, you are powerful and nobody can take that away from you." and "On nights when you feel alone, I am with you. When people doubt you or dismiss you, I am with you. I fought every day for you. So never stop fighting, I believe you."

Dauber described the university's response as "insensitive" and said that "a great university does not fear its students engaging with challenging texts -- it embraces that opportunity."

The Stanford Association of Students for Sexual Assault Prevention, a student advocacy group, has circulated a petition calling on the university to publicly apologize to Doe and immediately install the plaque with the quote she originally chose.

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parent
Stanford
on Jan 31, 2018 at 10:17 am
parent, Stanford
on Jan 31, 2018 at 10:17 am
18 people like this

What were the rejected quotes that the university thought were inappropriate?
I agree that "everything's OK" and "you are beautiful" are really poor choices.


Mary
another community
on Jan 31, 2018 at 10:43 am
Mary, another community
on Jan 31, 2018 at 10:43 am
21 people like this

Constant reminder of what happened that night in a "nice" round about way. Thanks but no thanks!


Roger
Evergreen Park
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:05 am
Roger, Evergreen Park
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:05 am
39 people like this

Perhaps I’m missing something.
A commemorative plaque? Commemorating what?
I can’t for any reason consider that anyone would want to be reminded of what happened that night.
Perhaps this is more about something else?


fake news
Stanford
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:10 am
fake news, Stanford
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:10 am
12 people like this

This is simply untrue -- Stanford never suggested the quote "I'm okay, everything's okay," and the people who are stating this as fact know that is not accurate.


Chip
Professorville
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:23 am
Chip, Professorville
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:23 am
39 people like this

This is a great example of a terrible idea. Dauber wants a platform?


Aletheia
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Green Acres
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:37 am
Aletheia, Green Acres
Registered user
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:37 am
17 people like this

Stanford is the epitome of too many dollars and not enough sense. [Portion removed.]


MyOpinion
another community
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:39 am
MyOpinion, another community
on Jan 31, 2018 at 11:39 am
32 people like this

What happened that night was clearly wrong, but a bubbling fountain and a proposed plaque? Commemorating what exactly? What will they do for the young female Google engineer whose half naked body was found on Dec 7th in a drainage canal along the San Francisco Bay Trail near Moffett Field? Because it did not happen on Stanford campus it does not matter? Where is the outrage for this deceased young woman who is clearly a victim of foul play, and is now dead, unable to write an essay about it. Web Link


PM
Old Palo Alto
on Jan 31, 2018 at 12:37 pm
PM, Old Palo Alto
on Jan 31, 2018 at 12:37 pm
9 people like this

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Get Right
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Barron Park
on Jan 31, 2018 at 12:58 pm
Get Right, Barron Park
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on Jan 31, 2018 at 12:58 pm
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Resident
Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on Jan 31, 2018 at 1:19 pm
Resident, Another Palo Alto neighborhood
on Jan 31, 2018 at 1:19 pm
8 people like this

The whole idea is Stanford working on their image . As someone else said, other victims don't have dedications.


Aletheia
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Green Acres
on Jan 31, 2018 at 1:48 pm
Aletheia, Green Acres
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on Jan 31, 2018 at 1:48 pm
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bemused
East Palo Alto
on Jan 31, 2018 at 2:39 pm
bemused, East Palo Alto
on Jan 31, 2018 at 2:39 pm
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Billy
College Terrace
on Jan 31, 2018 at 3:09 pm
Billy, College Terrace
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Hinrich
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Old Palo Alto
on Jan 31, 2018 at 3:36 pm
Hinrich, Old Palo Alto
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on Jan 31, 2018 at 3:36 pm
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