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Memorial service set Sunday for Travis Brewer

The Palo Alto High School sophomore, well-known for his friendly, open attitude, will be remembered at 4 p.m. Sunday

A memorial service will be held Sunday afternoon for Travis Brewer, the Palo Alto High School sophomore who died in his sleep Sunday night or early Monday morning.

Brewer, who friends and coaches say inspired others with his friendliness, honesty and upbeat outlook, will be remembered at 4 p.m. on Sunday, Sept. 21, at the Palo Alto High School gym, 50 Embarcadero Road.

His family requests that in lieu of flowers donations be given to the Special Olympics, Paly band or Sports Boosters Club.

Brewer, 16, was found in bed by his parents Monday morning. Brewer died of a congenital heart defect he'd had since birth, family members said.

Police found no suspicious circumstances, Agent Dan Ryan said.

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Students, coaches and family members said Brewer was well-known at school for his exceptionally open and outgoing demeanor.

"He was an awesome kid. He was an inspiration to all the kids that were involved with the program," said Dave Jefferson, the school's varsity baseball coach last year, when Brewer was team manager.

Brewer gave his best to the team every day -- he was unafraid of what people thought and always "spoke the truth," Jefferson said.

Brewer's father, Tony, is an assistant wrestling coach at Paly.

"He was a figure on campus because of his friendliness," according to senior Mike Hamada. He described Brewer's habit of approaching students, saying "Hey" and offering a high-five hand-slap.

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Brewer was extremely involved in school, helping with both football and baseball teams, playing drums and working at the Palo Alto Veterans Affairs Hospital as part of his special-education classes, his aunt Kim Murray said.

"Travis appears to have known everyone in Palo Alto," Melinda Teves, another aunt, added, citing an outpouring of visitors who came to the family Palo Alto home to pay respects Monday.

Speaking into the phone above voices of mourners at the house, Travis' uncle, Mike Brewer, emphasized his nephew's upbeat attitude: "He's just a kid that wanted to fit in and always had a laugh, a smile on his face, no matter what," he said.

"This is tough for me," Brewer added, his voice catching. He predicted the family would be deeply affected.

Because the teenager had regular check-ups for his heart problem, family members were surprised by the unexpected death, he said.

"For someone we almost lost almost at birth, he actually cheated life and did his 16 years here," the uncle said.

Fellow students were shocked to learn of Brewer's death, news of which spread quickly before teachers made an official announcement to classes mid-morning, Hamada said.

In an e-mail to the school community, Principal Jacquie McEvoy asked readers to "keep Travis' family in your thoughts and prayers."

To comfort students, the school's guidance office was staffed with school counselors, the school psychologist, and counselors from Adolescent Counseling Services all day, she wrote.

Read the e-mail from Principal Jacquie McEvoy (PDF)

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Memorial service set Sunday for Travis Brewer

The Palo Alto High School sophomore, well-known for his friendly, open attitude, will be remembered at 4 p.m. Sunday

by Arden Pennell / Palo Alto Online

Uploaded: Tue, Sep 16, 2008, 3:14 pm

A memorial service will be held Sunday afternoon for Travis Brewer, the Palo Alto High School sophomore who died in his sleep Sunday night or early Monday morning.

Brewer, who friends and coaches say inspired others with his friendliness, honesty and upbeat outlook, will be remembered at 4 p.m. on Sunday, Sept. 21, at the Palo Alto High School gym, 50 Embarcadero Road.

His family requests that in lieu of flowers donations be given to the Special Olympics, Paly band or Sports Boosters Club.

Brewer, 16, was found in bed by his parents Monday morning. Brewer died of a congenital heart defect he'd had since birth, family members said.

Police found no suspicious circumstances, Agent Dan Ryan said.

Students, coaches and family members said Brewer was well-known at school for his exceptionally open and outgoing demeanor.

"He was an awesome kid. He was an inspiration to all the kids that were involved with the program," said Dave Jefferson, the school's varsity baseball coach last year, when Brewer was team manager.

Brewer gave his best to the team every day -- he was unafraid of what people thought and always "spoke the truth," Jefferson said.

Brewer's father, Tony, is an assistant wrestling coach at Paly.

"He was a figure on campus because of his friendliness," according to senior Mike Hamada. He described Brewer's habit of approaching students, saying "Hey" and offering a high-five hand-slap.

Brewer was extremely involved in school, helping with both football and baseball teams, playing drums and working at the Palo Alto Veterans Affairs Hospital as part of his special-education classes, his aunt Kim Murray said.

"Travis appears to have known everyone in Palo Alto," Melinda Teves, another aunt, added, citing an outpouring of visitors who came to the family Palo Alto home to pay respects Monday.

Speaking into the phone above voices of mourners at the house, Travis' uncle, Mike Brewer, emphasized his nephew's upbeat attitude: "He's just a kid that wanted to fit in and always had a laugh, a smile on his face, no matter what," he said.

"This is tough for me," Brewer added, his voice catching. He predicted the family would be deeply affected.

Because the teenager had regular check-ups for his heart problem, family members were surprised by the unexpected death, he said.

"For someone we almost lost almost at birth, he actually cheated life and did his 16 years here," the uncle said.

Fellow students were shocked to learn of Brewer's death, news of which spread quickly before teachers made an official announcement to classes mid-morning, Hamada said.

In an e-mail to the school community, Principal Jacquie McEvoy asked readers to "keep Travis' family in your thoughts and prayers."

To comfort students, the school's guidance office was staffed with school counselors, the school psychologist, and counselors from Adolescent Counseling Services all day, she wrote.

Read the e-mail from Principal Jacquie McEvoy (PDF)

Comments

Karen
Greenmeadow
on Sep 16, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Karen, Greenmeadow
on Sep 16, 2008 at 4:40 pm

To the Brewer family: We are so sorry to hear about Travis. We got to know Travis back when my daughter Jenice was at Jordan playing volleyball. She played with his sister, Sisley. Travis was with his mom at every game. He was a sweet kid, fun to have around. My daughter Jekara, also a coach at Paly high saw Travis just last Friday and he was his usual sweet, cheerful outgoing self. He was a great kid and will be missed!


Sonja Garrett
another community
on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Sonja Garrett, another community
on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:09 pm

To Bruce, Becky and family. Although we are family separated by a few miles, I want you to know that you are in my family's prayers. We have not seen Travis since he was roughly 6 or 7 but knowing that God gave him an opportunity to make his mark on the world until the tender age of 16 fills my heart. He will be missed here among us, but trust that he has even greater works to do above! Love always, your cousin Sonja


Reyes Esquivel Family
Palo Alto High School
on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:32 pm
Reyes Esquivel Family, Palo Alto High School
on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:32 pm

Tony, Becky, Gabe, & Sisley,
Our hearts go out to you all. You are all in our prayers. Travis was an awesome kid from an awesome family. What a blessing to have had such a wonderful person as part of your family. His spirit will truly live on.
I will miss his big smile and him always going out of his way to say hello to me.
His passing has touched our family deeply.

God Bless You All.

Blanca



Dave DeGeronimo
Greene Middle School
on Sep 16, 2008 at 11:03 pm
Dave DeGeronimo, Greene Middle School
on Sep 16, 2008 at 11:03 pm

I will miss that big smile and warm spirit that "Big T" brought with him everywhere and for everybody. He was a fixture in the Jordan PE Dept, at PALY Athletics and he was always willing to help.

Our thoughts and prayers for Tony, Becky, Gabe and Sisley and the many friends and family that miss him greatly! I know the gym will not hold enough people on Sunday that want to say goodbye to such a special person!

Your teacher and friend,
Mr. "D"


Pam
another community
on Sep 17, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Pam, another community
on Sep 17, 2008 at 3:52 pm

To: Bruce, Becky, Gabe, and Sisley, We are praying for all of you at your time of need. We feel blessed to have been able to see Travis this summer in Las Vegas, NV. I will never forget that smile he always gave me when I was playing around with him. Also, he really got a kick out of playing with Peter. We love you guys and just know we are a phone call away if you need anything.

Blessings

Pam, Jeff, Jeffrey, Jazmin and Peter.


Janine Bisharat
Downtown North
on Sep 17, 2008 at 8:26 pm
Janine Bisharat, Downtown North
on Sep 17, 2008 at 8:26 pm

Dear Becky, Tony, Gabe and Sisley

We were deeply saddened to hear the news from Carol this afternoon. Our love is with you and we wish you moments of beautiful memories in the midst of this trajedy.

Helps us all appreciate the moments of life that we have and share. After all, that's all we have.

Love
Janine and Aron


Tori Alcala
Triple El
on Sep 17, 2008 at 11:36 pm
Tori Alcala, Triple El
on Sep 17, 2008 at 11:36 pm

Becky and family

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I coached Travis when he was a kinder, he played on the green basketball team at the Palo Alto Family YMCA, he is and will always be one of my favorite kids I have coached. He was a true joy, and full of life, and love. I feel very blessed to have had him touch my life in such a positive way. Becky you are an amazing women and mom.

All my love

Coach Tori


Stephanie Spector
Palo Alto High School
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:58 am
Stephanie Spector, Palo Alto High School
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:58 am

Travis attended school with me at Walter Hays since fourth grade. I remember he was always in my PE classes with that big goofy grin of his. I'm not sure I ever saw him not smiling. Though I didn't know him too well, I will always remember seeing him around school with his scooter, high-fiving kids as he passed by. Travis had more friends than many people may have in a lifetime. There are so many people who have been deeply affected by this tragedy and the Brewer family will be in all our thoughts. We will not forget.

My thoughts are with you,
Stephanie Spector
PALY Sophomore


Fatma Helmy
Nixon School
on Sep 18, 2008 at 6:25 am
Fatma Helmy, Nixon School
on Sep 18, 2008 at 6:25 am

Becky and family

My heart goes to you who cared for all our children at Nixon. I pray that your devastation will someday be consoled by the memories of his beautiful face and the blessings of having had him even for such a short time. I wish you courage through those difficult times.

Fatma Helmy


Becky Brewer
Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Becky Brewer, Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:17 pm

To Every Person who has written a comment -
Thank you so much from our entire family. Your thoughts are so appreciated and help to lift our spirits. We love Travis so much and are just trying to get through each day without him here to cheer us up. I am so glad you have all gotten to share in his smiles and laughter.

Love always,
Becky Brewer and family
xoxo


Yolando, Troy and Ian
Old Palo Alto
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:41 pm
Yolando, Troy and Ian, Old Palo Alto
on Sep 18, 2008 at 12:41 pm

To: Bruce, Becky, Gabe and Sisley

I'm so glad for the opportunity to have met and loved Travis as a part of our family. Although we don't see each other often, know that you all are in our prayers. I too enjoyed Travis's outlook on life and never remember a time he did not have a smile on his face or was cracking a joke about something. This was definitely unexpected but God has greater plans for him now. Take care and God bless.

Your cousin, Yolando


Suzanne El Gamal
Crescent Park
on Sep 18, 2008 at 4:35 pm
Suzanne El Gamal, Crescent Park
on Sep 18, 2008 at 4:35 pm

To the Brewer Family,

Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. We will miss Travis's smile and will continue to remember him by it. May you all be nourished by the warm memories. We pray that you find the strength to make it through this sudden separation.

Take Care,

Suzanne El Gamal & Family


kris t.
another community
on Sep 18, 2008 at 10:43 pm
kris t., another community
on Sep 18, 2008 at 10:43 pm

My heart and prayers go out to the Brewer family.
kris t. paly77


Vanessa G Hall
another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 6:34 am
Vanessa G Hall, another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 6:34 am

Hello Bruce and Family,

This is Vanessa, your cousin from Dallas. Your Aunt Robbie's daughter. We send our deepest condolences. We will be praying and knowing that God will see you through this season in life. I know it is hard and my heart bleeds for all of you. Remember in all things God is Faithful and from the article your baby lived life and did not waste his precious time. For that we are grateful. Much love and we pray to see you guys soon. We are praying for your peace in the midst of this storm. Be blessed!!!

Jeffery Hall & Vanessa Gipson Hall
107 Ridgecrest Dr.
Red Oak, Texas 75154
469-337-2645


Tammy Tyrone & Mariah Demery
Palo Alto Hills
on Sep 19, 2008 at 8:46 am
Tammy Tyrone & Mariah Demery, Palo Alto Hills
on Sep 19, 2008 at 8:46 am

Bruce & Becky,

We are so sorry to hear about Travis. Let us know if you need anything and we will be calling you.

God bless you during this difficult time.

Tammy, Tyrone and Mariah Demery


Rie
another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:01 pm
Rie, another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:01 pm

Will keep sending prayers...

Love
Rie


Sonny & Terry (Gipson) Iyasere
another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:18 pm
Sonny & Terry (Gipson) Iyasere, another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:18 pm

Hello Bruce and Family,
We send our deepest sympathy. May the soothing arms of God comfort and hold you in this time and the memories of your son carry you through this difficult time. You are in our prayers.

Your cousin,
Terry and Family

Sonny & Terry Gipson
6045 Parkhaven Drive
Baton Rouge, LA 70816
225-205-5551


Norris and Dottie Choice
another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:32 pm
Norris and Dottie Choice, another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 1:32 pm

DEAR TONY AND BECKY,
THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS OUR HEART FELT CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR PAIN AT THIS TIME. OUR MEMORIES OF YOUR BELOVED TRAVIS ARE SWEET AND EVERLASTING. WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOUR STRENGTH AND COURAGE DURING THIS TIME OF TRAIL AND BURDEN.
WE STAND WITH YOU AND ALL THE BREWER FAMILY IN FAITH, LOVE AND CARING.
MAY GOD KEEP YOU AT PEACE IN HIS GRACE AND MERCY.
WITH PROFOUND LOVE AND PRAYER,
NORRIS AND DOTTIE CHOICE
SAN JOSE, CA.


Tim
another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Tim, another community
on Sep 19, 2008 at 4:45 pm

Tony, Becky, Gabe and Sis
Thinking of you and sending (((( HUGS )))) to all of you. Travis was a GREAT kid and the wonderful memories you have of him will help you get through this. Peace be with you. Tim, Jan, Megan and Jon


Dear Becky, our dear friend,
Nixon School
on Sep 19, 2008 at 5:48 pm
Dear Becky, our dear friend,, Nixon School
on Sep 19, 2008 at 5:48 pm

Our deepest condolences.

You've been the most kind, patient friend. My two kids love you at Nixon, and I am so sorry.

from Maria, Toshio, Leilan, and Takeru Nishi


Maria
Nixon School
on Sep 19, 2008 at 5:51 pm
Maria, Nixon School
on Sep 19, 2008 at 5:51 pm

Dear Becky, our dear friend,

Our deepest condolences.

You've been the most kind, patient friend. My two kids love you at Nixon, and I am so sorry.

from Maria, Toshio, Leilan, and Takeru Nishi


Calvin
Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 20, 2008 at 1:08 am
Calvin, Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 20, 2008 at 1:08 am

Peace be with this man, it's easy to see when a dude is a good dude, and Travis was obviously a good dude. rest in peace always.


Tameeka Bennett
Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 20, 2008 at 10:12 am
Tameeka Bennett, Duveneck/St. Francis
on Sep 20, 2008 at 10:12 am

Hello Brewer Family!

Just want to let you know that our thoughts and Payers are wih you. There will be a brighter day :)


We love you all so much! God Bless,

The Bennett Family


Loren & Yoli Schoof and Family
Menlo Park
on Sep 20, 2008 at 8:06 pm
Loren & Yoli Schoof and Family, Menlo Park
on Sep 20, 2008 at 8:06 pm

Tony, Becky, Gabe and Sisley,
We had many wonderful years living next door to you -- and many memories of seeing Travis' smile on a daily basis.

He was a beautiful baby -- always smiling, always happy.
At Halloweeen, he'd come to our door -- costume and all plus his big smile. Just so many memories of seeing him as a baby and growing up...

Our hearts are heavy for you -- please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. And while we are just a skip and a hop away, know that we will always be here for you.

Much love,
Yoli and Loren


Erin, Marco, Annika and Ryan
Nixon School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 10:14 am
Erin, Marco, Annika and Ryan, Nixon School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 10:14 am

Dearest Becky and family,
Our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you during this horrible time. Becky has always given a warm welcome and helpful hand for our daughter at Nixon School--thank you. We were heart-broken to hear of your tragic loss. Three years ago, our son Aidan died. There were few people who could really relate to what we had to go through, either immediately or for the next several years, but we did find comfort and support through The Compassionate Friends. (Web Link They are a special group who are dedicated to helping families survive the loss of a child. There is little anyone can say to ease your shock and grief, but please do know that you are not alone, that Travis and your family are in so many people's thoughts, that Travis's memory will live on as long as you do, that you will feel happy again, and that happiness will be OK. Much love, the Vriens family


Maria and Aurora
Nixon School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 11:42 am
Maria and Aurora, Nixon School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 11:42 am

Dearest Becky,

Just to send you and your family all our love.


Kellie Alex and Kira Enriquez - Bloom
Southgate
on Sep 21, 2008 at 9:08 pm
Kellie Alex and Kira Enriquez - Bloom, Southgate
on Sep 21, 2008 at 9:08 pm

Dear Becky,
I enjoyed sitting with you at practices and games when Alex and Travis played baseball togehter. We were all touched by Travis. He was a sweet guy with a ready smile and quick wit. Alex and Traivs were at Hays, Jordan and Paly together. Travis was so sweet to Alex's little sister, Kira, he was such a happy guy making us all smile and laugh. We are so very sad and just not ready to let go of him. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kellie, Alex and Kira


Doug Govan
Gunn High School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 11:22 pm
Doug Govan, Gunn High School
on Sep 21, 2008 at 11:22 pm

Hello Brewer Family,
I was shocked by the unexpected news. Travis was just a young kid when Tony was coaching me in American Legion in the late 90's. Even in "heated" Gunn vs Paly games I would always go out of my way to say hi to Tony. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Travis personally as a young man. However, there's no doubt in my mind that he possessed all of the outstanding traits that his parents were both blessed with.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have thought about your family all week...
Doug Govan
Jamie Govan
Renee Govan


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