By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
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Couples: Waiting or Acting?
Mar 8, 2019 3:08 pm
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I encourage you to figure out one thing you
can do differently today. I often find that couples are waiting for the other to change, to say something, to do... More
I smile, I laugh, and pretend I’m okay
Mar 1, 2019 1:14 pm
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I went to a memorial service for Andres Miranda, who almost made it to 20 years old. He died of Cystic Fibrosis (CF) after having been diagnosed at 4 months. The... More
Feb 22, 2019 5:15 pm
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I was out ill for a week a while back, and needed minor surgery. I often remind clients to say thanks to their partner for all s/he does, and to share specific appreciation... More
Couples: Mirror, Mirror on the . . . Fight?!
Feb 15, 2019 4:27 pm
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Here's an experiment to try next time you have an argument or fight:
Get two hand mirrors.
Hold the mirror in front of your face while you're having words... More