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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ...  (More)

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Premarital and Couples: Are you Kinder to Strangers than to Your Partner?
May 29, 2020 10:26 am
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Is there a grain of truth to the statement "I am kinder to a stranger than I am to my partner/spouse?"

If so, consider these questions:

How did I get here?
How... More
Premarital and Couples: Are you Kinder to Strangers than to Your Partner?
May 29, 2020 10:21 am
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Is there a grain of truth to the statement "I am kinder to a stranger than I am to my partner/spouse?"

If so, consider these questions:

How did I get here?
How... More
Premarital and Couples: Taking Breaks (Fallow Time)
May 22, 2020 1:27 pm
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Fallow, def.: Plowed and harrowed but left unsown for a period in order to restore its fertility . . .

I'm a proponent of taking breaks. The Covid-19 pandemic... More
Sex Talk is Always Part of Couples Counseling . . .
May 15, 2020 7:01 am
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. . . at some point. I find that couples either come to counseling because of sex concerns -- or don't bring up sex at all. If you don't bring it up, I will, in... More
Premarital and Couples: The Resiliency of Bridges
May 8, 2020 6:42 pm
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Lately I've been thinking about the image of healthy couples as being a bridge. Each of you is one foundation on each side of the water. A strong foundation must... More
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