Editorial: Palo Alto's saga of fear and relief ends Crimes & Incidents, posted by Editor, Palo Alto Online, on Nov 7, 2007 at 11:02 am
Todd David Burpee's reported admission that "It could have been anyone" that he attacked Oct. 30 added a new element to a horrendous week of trauma for Palo Alto, from the 17-year-old victim to parents and young persons community-wide.
Read the full editorial here Web Link posted Wednesday, November 7, 2007, 12:00 AM
Posted by R Wray, a resident of the Palo Verde neighborhood, on Nov 7, 2007 at 4:49 pm
Yes, a "tragedy" implies a calamity, a sudden event. It was a tragedy for the victim. But the only way that it might be called a tragedy for the criminal is that he got caught.
I recommend the book, "Inside the Criminal Mind" by Stanton E. Samenow. He shows that "the young man" undoubtedly chose his criminal traits (the way he thinks) long ago, maybe going back as far as when he was 4 to 6 years old. He didn't just "snap". This is a big problem for him, but hardly a tragedy--he made the choice.
Posted by Resident, a resident of the Barron Park neighborhood, on Nov 7, 2007 at 11:06 pm
Mr. Burpee should be locked up and the key thrown away. If the state wants to give him anger-management therapy and a way that he may work behind bars so that he can spend the rest of his life repaying the debt he owes to that poor young woman he cold-bloodedly tortured for his own selfish enjoyment/relief of stress/cowardly attempt to feel powerful...fine...but he should NOT be let back out onto the streets where he can menace innocents again.
No...it is not the bullies we should protect and reward with freedom, it's the law-abiding citizens and generous personalities among us that we should encourage and reward with freedom...to say let this be a lesson for women/gentle folk to be more cautious is going down a dangerous path...what's next, should women only feel safe when being escorted by a man....should she only be allowed to feel safe when she stays locked up in her own home....I thought we had gotten out of the dark ages --that that is what we chastized the taliban for promoting ?! That we had finally become a more civilized society that protected and rewarded public service and citizenship, that finally provided safe public spaces for all law-abiding citizens NOT brutish, reckless, deliberately cruel, sadistic personas.
Posted by dreed, a resident of the Green Acres neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 12:33 am
It's bizarre and deceptive to characterize the situation as one in which the attacker had something go "terribly, terribly wrong" in his life. The use of the passive here is inappropriate. Let's start the sentence with "He did..." and finish it with "something terribly, terribly wrong."
Posted by whose life has now gone terribly, terribly wrong, a resident of the Midtown neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 10:24 am
I'm glad to see the other comments posted showing other people's dislike of the usage of this phrase. It's awful to see a young person's life destroyed so quickly, but he did make the choices himself, and wreaked horrific havoc on someone else. The others' affected by this - loved ones of the victim and perpetrator, are important, but secondary. I'm glad that Burpee admitted what he did and seemed sorry. I do gotta wonder why he didn't pass his US military tests. They can't be THAT hard.
Posted by Parent, a resident of Another Palo Alto neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 10:56 am
I feel that I must be the only person who has some compassion for this young man. I have seen the video of his face at his court appearance and I see the face of a terrified and remorseful child in the body of a young man. It is apparent that he has experienced a difficult upbringing with domestic violence as the norm and when he loses his temper, he lashes out in the only way he has seen all his life.
What is scary in this is that in all the years he was at Paly, no one was there to help him when he needed it, no mentors, role models, to be the adult friend he needed. Where were the social workers, guidance counsellors, school psychologists, advisors, through all this? Were they spending all their time with the over-stressed, over-achievers, and those with the potential of suicide from this that we see in our high schools? Shouldn't they be there for kids like this, too?
What worries me even more is wondering how many are like this in Gunn and Paly, quiet, troubled kids from troubled backgrounds, waiting to turn out into the the same cyclical adults they have been raised by. These kids are there today and need help now.
What does scare me is that one of these kids could be sitting beside "my child" in class. Who is to know?
Posted by hose life has now gone terribly, terribly wrong, a resident of the Midtown neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 11:19 am
Dear Parent, how do you know he didn't have role models or mentors or counseling? He had football coaches, teachers, bosses, a fiancee. There are many that come out of bad family backgrounds who don't kidnap, sexually assault & attempt to murder others. I don't feel much compassion for him because the horror he perpetrated on another was much greater than his stress. He was under stress due to his being investigated for felony fraud, & had a fight w/his girlfriend due to that. He's victimized plenty of people & he's responsible for that, whatever his background.
Posted by Parent, a resident of Another Palo Alto neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 1:17 pm
Well, its an interesting question - is a life wasted a tragedy? Its true he's made his choices, so he could hardly be thought of as a victime. So, at what point did the tragedy occur for him? As Wray suggests, perhaps as far back as 4-6 years old. Does a 4-6 year old make choices or is a 4-6 year old victimized by adults around him who brutalize or neglect?
parent, teachers, BOE - look around. Are we creating (or ignoring) any tragedy's in the making?
I don't defend this loser, but the concept of the boys life as a tragedy might be instructive to us if we wish to prevent this from happening again. We should be identifynig at risk and achievement gap kids, and helping them as little ones. With every ounce of resource we have. Instead we sit around dreaming up ways to lavish resources on boutique education for high achievers - aren't we hero's. shame on us.
Posted by dreed, a resident of the Green Acres neighborhood, on Nov 8, 2007 at 2:54 pm
Look, this attacker is an adult and made a conscious choice to assault someone horribly - so horribly that she will no doubt be deeply affected for the rest of her life. He could have chosen differently. We all make choices, and have to live with the consequences. I have a daughter. Should someone smash her face into the ground, my inclination would not be to convince as many people as I can to feel sorry for the violator.
We all face difficulties of all kinds, but can we really use those difficulties as an excuse to ruin other people's bodies, souls, and lives? Where is the compassion for the girl and her family? Why even focus on the attacker? He has not earned the right to my compassion or concern.