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Palo Alto Weekly

Community Pulse - February 8, 2013

Deaths

Lawrence Viariseo

Lawrence Viariseo, who survived a fall off a 100-foot Sierra cliff, triumphed over bladder cancer and became an avid bicyclist despite being paralyzed, died Jan. 30 of cancer.

Viariseo was featured in an Aug. 4, 2012, Palo Alto Weekly story about his journey, in which he talked about his accident and struggles and his triumphs, and his goal to ride 100 miles to raise money for cancer research last September in the Canary Foundation Challenge.

He did not get to make the ride, having been diagnosed with a metastasizing cancer shortly before the event, according to a friend. But Viariseo fought the cancer with the same aplomb as he had for all of his other challenges. And he died shortly after telling his mother that he would be alright, a friend said.

His niece, Megan Cox, told the Canary Foundation that he was always grateful to Stanford University Medical Center for the care they had provided.

"As you may remember, my uncle was a paraplegic who had beat stage 4 bladder cancer once before. The doctors at Stanford he felt had saved his life. It meant the world to him to be entering into the challenge in 2012 to give back to those doctors," she said in a statement the foundation released.

Viariseo, 54, was a well-known fixture for many years at Peet's Coffee and Tea on Homer Avenue. He would frequently ride his bicycle or wheel his wheelchair down to the coffee shop.

An accomplished artist, he painted a pastel portrait of the late Apple co-founder and CEO Steve Jobs as part of the Palo Alto Weekly's sponsorship of the artist's corner at the Palo Alto Festival of the Arts in August 2012.

Viariseo broke his back and was paralyzed from the waist down after falling off a 100-foot cliff near Lake Tahoe while skiing. He was just 21 years old. Despite his paralysis, he built up his body and found he could control the quadriceps in his upper thighs and one knee. To cycle, he shifted his upper-body muscles to move his hips and propel the pedals; plastic braces supported his paralyzed legs.

"I didn't accept my disability on my doctors' terms. I accepted it on my own terms. Doctors can't tell you who you are going to be. They can't measure your heart," he told the Weekly last August.

Viariseo was a Palo Alto native and graduate of Cubberley High School. During his interview, he summed up his life's philosophy:

"I just know how lucky I am," he said.

He is survived by his mother, Alicia Boyd; sisters, Janice Viariseo-Bothwell and Deborah Costella, and step-brother, Kirk Boyd; niece, Megan Cox; and his longtime companion, Aviva Rochester.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, Feb. 9, at 3 p.m. at the Palo Alto Art Center, 1313 Newell Road, Palo Alto.

Leah McDonough

Dr. Leah McDonough died Jan. 16 in Redwood City of complications from Alzheimer's.

Born and raised in New York City, she and her husband Joseph McDonough had lived in Palo Alto since 1962. She was preceded in death by her husband of 61 years in 2010. They had known each other since they were 3 years old.

She attended the College of New Rochelle (CNR), received a master's degree at Fordham University, and earned her doctorate in psychology at Michigan State University. CNR awarded her a scholarship during the Great Depression, allowing her to pursue a career in psychology.

A clinical psychologist, she worked for San Mateo County for more than two decades. For 12 years, she directed the forensic unit of San Mateo County's Mental Health Division. Her psychology research was published in numerous articles and book chapters. After retiring from the County, she took up writing essays and short stories, publishing locally and nationally. She enjoyed babysitting for her granddaughter Carrie. She and her husband traveled extensively, and loved to take Carrie along with them.

She is survived by her daughter, Susan McDonough (Warren Mar); and her granddaughter, Caroline Mar (Sandy Metivier).

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