By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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See Me. Hear Me. Don’t Fix Me.
Aug 22, 2014 1:42 pm
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It seems so simple. But to see, listen and not fix is harder than to reassure or apologize.
We need to know our spouse gets us. We are competent, intelligent... More
Teen Women & Father's Grief Workshops
Jun 18, 2014 9:07 am
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Want a weekend to feel normal with your grief? A place to not have to pretend about what you're going through? Be surrounded by others that have joined the club... More
Jan 7, 2015 8:13 am
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I am for anger. It's a useful feeling that lets us know a boundary has been crossed. Anger lets us know we need to do something about that.
It's what and how... More
"The Big Snit"
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
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If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit
for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More