By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Fidelity, Infidelity, Loyalty, Luck
Jan 27, 2014 4:58 pm
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I just read "Vow," by Wendy Plump, in which she writes about her own and her x-husband's infidelity; the benefits and the costs she found.
To have a marriage... More
"The Purpose of Sex"
May 9, 2014 1:17 pm
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Ashley Judd, in her memoir, wrote that Archbishop Desmond Tutu told her that the purpose of sex between married couples is "as an instrument of love and expression,... More
Mar 7, 2014 12:22 pm
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We're getting an extra hour of daylight, starting on Sunday. I do not want you to work for another hour a day. I want you to spend time with your beloved (without... More
Dec 17, 2013 8:47 am
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Okay, I'm getting tired of the awkwardness of writing him/her and s/he, etc. I am going to randomly write pronouns (and mix it up from post to post).
Why does She Keep Interrupting Me?
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
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Interruption, or Bid for Connection?
Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with a detail... More