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Couple's Net

By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i...  (More)

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All This Arguing . . .
Apr 11, 2014 11:41 am
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. . . fighting, disagreeing is actually a primal cry for connection.

We are biologically wired to NEED a secure connection with another adult (defined as: be... More
“Everything has a Crack. That’s How the Light Gets In.” Leonard Cohen
Apr 8, 2014 1:31 pm
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Our marriage is not perfect; our partner can not fulfill all of our needs (yet may fill many); our children are not the reflected best aspects of ourselves –... More
Love is Sustained by Action; a Pattern of Daily Devotion
Apr 4, 2014 12:46 pm
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"The Five Magic Hours" (from Dr. John Gottman of the 'Love Lab' in Seattle) is for those of you who are busy:

- Two minutes every morning, eye contact, kisses... More
“It is So Much Easier to Believe than to Think; It is Astounding How Much More Believing is Done than Thinking.” James Kemper
Apr 1, 2014 9:28 am
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James Kemper was an engineer working on the issues of the Mississippi River and its flooding problems in the 1920s. I am pulling this quote out of context to talk... More
Regrets?
Mar 28, 2014 8:15 am
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Here's a follow on to my last piece about focusing on today, and not waiting until tomorrow, which never comes. I received an article that was written by hospice... More
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